Monday, August 8, 2011

MARKING TURF WITH MARKERS

Khyri LOVES coloring. Yesterday he had a run in with the pens! ahhahahaha. The boy is very artistic. He explores all mediums... paper, walls, and legs! And yes, Keith and I were both wide awake... Hey you never know this could be the start of something fabulous! Move over Picasso and your tired old paintings... Later for Henna Tattoos... Here comes Khyri with his wearable art ;-)


skin is waaaaay better than paper!
He even did his toes!




Tuckered Out!

It started out innocent enough - we were drawing shapes and writing words. Then it got out of hand! But he was having so much fun and he was seriously concentrating on his scribbles. You can't interrupt greatness - you gotta let the creativity flow.

Now comes the hard part - washing it off! hahhaha

Friday, July 22, 2011

BLING BLING

I'm not a big jewelry person, but one thing I feel completely naked without is my earrings. Now don't get excited I don't have a bazillion pairs of earrings. Quite the contrary.. hahaha I only wear sterling silver studs and small hoops. That's it. Nothing fancy - but they are my favorite and most necessary piece of jewelry. Its weird. I don't like touching my ears - or even having the proverbial 'sweet nothings' whispered in them. Actually, just typing about it is giving me the heebeejeebees - yuck. Let me unclench my shoulders...

I've actually had holes all my life. I got my ears pierced around the time I was christened. I don't remember wearing earrings in elementary school, but I certainly remember them in middle school. I remember wanting cute Mickey Mouse earrings. Oooh and one year I begged for emerald earrings (my birthstone) I got some green stone studs - but I can guarantee they weren't emeralds hahahahha. I liked wearing earrings but I couldn't look in the mirror and stick the post in my ears. For a good 2 or 3 years, my mom would put my earrings in while I was asleep because I just couldn't do it. No lie. But I was soooooo cute when she got them in ;-)

By high school I had gotten over my fear and was rocking big silver hoops like a pro. I still didn't like messing with my ears, but all the cool kids got their earrings from the village - I had to be down ;-)

So... when Kielle was born in the back of my mind I started thinking about getting her ears pierced. I was not looking forward to it. I thought about the two options: 1. Pierce her ears now while she can't touch them and most likely won't remember the pain or 2. Wait until she is old enough to decide for herself.  I opted for getting her ears pierced now.

Kielle's pediatrician doesn't pierce ears. I called and they recommended taking Kielle to Piercing Pagoda or Claire's in the mall. Not. Gonna. Happen. For my little girl I wanted someone who is a professional, not a teenager working a $8/hr. summer job. I didn't want chicks picking out bangles and headbands watching my poor baby cry while getting her ears pierced. Not to mention at Claire's the ear piercing chair is always located at the front window... um no thank you. Most importantly though, I wanted a sterile environment.

I was able to ask my sorority sisters - shout out to Alpha Kappa Alpha - if they had any suggestions for pediatrician offices that pierce ears for walk-ins. I decided to go with Atlanta Pediatric Partners. I made the appointment for a Tuesday. I had three weeks to mentally prepare.

I am a wuss so I called in for backup. My friend Eulene was able to come with me to appointment. Nervous does not begin to explain what I was feeling! I don't know why either. When the kiddos get shots I'm a rock - but this!?!? pure-dee-wreck. My legs were shaking literally 2 weeks before the appointment.

Poor Eulene. She thought she was there for Kielle - nope. She was there to comfort me! The appointment was at 11am. We arrived 5 minutes early. I handed Kielle to Eulene while I filled out the paperwork. My hands were shaking. I think it was mostly because I knew she was about to be in serious pain. We got called in and the wheels were set in motion.

Most of this was a blur... The nurse showed me the sterile packages with the earrings already attached to the ear piercing gun. She said something about the procedure and how we needed to clean the ears daily. Blah blah blah. I wasn't listening... I was cross-eyed. Luckily she had everything she said printed on a blue index card - perfect. She then laid my baby down on the table and marked both ears with a blue marker. Kielle cried the whole time. Its rock and roll time. I got ready - "what do I need to do? Where should I stand? Do we need boiling water and clean towels??" But - - short reprieve. The nurse stepped out to get an assistant. Kielle - she looked at me and Eulene like 'that wasn't so bad!' I couldn't look at her... I felt horrible, I knew what was coming.

With both professionals in the room, it was time for me to participate in the brutality. I was instructed to hold her arms and legs still while the assistant held her head and the nurse pierced her ears. I literally could not feel my legs. My stomach was all types of gurgling and I swear there was a moment when I thought I was gonna upchuck. Eulene asked me if I was going to look at Kielle to give her some comfort - ummm NO! You can do that - C'mon super friend step in riiigghhhtt now! I on the other hand will nicely nestle my head in her stomach while performing my duties and hum loud enough to hopefully throw myself into a trance.

As soon as I locked her limbs down, Kielle started wailing... and then I heard it - POP!. My heart sank.. and I swear a little throw up rose in my mouth. Then the tears started. It wasn't a lot - just a mist (I didn't want to be that mother), but it was enough that I had to wipe my eyes real quick. My job wasn't finished. I wanted to just give up right then and leave the office, but I buckled down and held her for the second - POP.

Seriously it was as bad as I thought it would be. How about afterwards, the nurse looks at her on the table and says "well let me just check..." check what!?!?! you think we're doing this again!?! um.. no ma'am...wrap up your tools and go 'head on... she'll just have to be crooked eared hmph... feeling weak. I need food - we're headed to Olive Garden. No time for 'redos'

Turns out the holes are absolutely perfect and she looks great. I don't think she even realizes that her ears are pierced (Luckily Khyri hasn't either. Khyri + Kielle's earrings = Disaster waiting to happen). Keith is in charge of maintenance due to my issues. He puts alcohol on her ear and rotates each earring to keep the holes from closing. Beauty is pain - Kielle is learning that lesson early.

I'm glad we got them pierced now - she looks absolutely adorable with her 14k bling bling don't you think???

 

 






Monday, June 13, 2011

BIG BOYS USE THE POTTY

He streaks past me and I catch a quick whiff. I start to pray - please let  it be bright enough that I can find it this time. The worst is when its camouflaged by the carpet. Is that it? Over there in the corner?? Nope. Where is it? The stages of hope start: Hopefully its more water less solid. Hopefully its just in this room. Hopefully its just upstairs. Later for hopes - focus on the search...

Eyes and ears are on full alert. The culprit - chilling. Playing with toys and having a grand ole time. Me!??! Stressed. Its too hot not to find it. Can you imagine the smell!?!? Gotta find it. No choice. Focus. 

There it is - yellow, brown, with a slight tinge of orange. Its a small spot near the wall. Not so bad.  Get out the rug spray this will be easy... wait. I should retrace his footsteps... dang a bigger spot but manageable. A little further - the motherload.

Why did I think 'naked time' would be good? Why don't we have all wood floors so this can be an easy clean up? Why couldn't this be the nice hard solid poo? Why did I think that corn and beans for dinner last night was a good idea!??!?! I scoop it up. Its lesson time. I take it to him and say - "poopoo goes in the potty." we walk to the potty and drop the poo inside *blank stare* I know he understands me. This is a battle of wills. I'm in it for the long haul and will win - clearly he doesn't know who he's dealing with! hmph.

He's looking at me crazy - almost with a smirk. I look down... is that!?!? on his!?! what in the world?!?! Yup. Poo. down his legs, on his ankles, and between his toes. Really!??!! Gotta get to the tub - and end this tomfoolery right now. He's snatched up and dumped into the tub. scrub.scrub.scrub. This is ri-damn-diculous. He's still smiling - always the clown. Nothing phases him. Towel dry, new diaper (no more training today mommy's d.o.n.e.), and new clothes. We cleared this hurdle. I done gone and worked up a thirst.

Walk down the stairs to get a drink. Hit the last step, turn the corner. Stop. Look. Grumble. Not one, not two, but three neatly formed doodie piles right by the play table. All gleaming in the Georgia sun. Why did I let him go downstairs??? Don't beat yourself up - this is not your fault... this is not your fault! Deep breath. Start again. Get the the rug cleaner and scrub brush. Spritz, Spritz, Spritz, Scrub scrub scrub. Finish it off with some Febreeze.

Look at the clock - it's 9:37am and I am literally pooped.

Thursday, May 26, 2011

FAMILY KEEPSAKES

On my trip to NYC, my dad swore that Kielle looks just like me when I was her age. I can't see it yet, but it sure was nice to hear that this munchkin resembles me - Lord knows Khyri is a mini Keith hahahhaa. He showed me this picture of me and my Great Grandmother. In the picture, I am wearing my white christening gown and I have a little white bow in my hair. I remembered that I still have that gown in my dresser drawer. Clearly baby chunkiness runs in the family.

Me and my Granny circa 1977
I love personalized handmade gifts. My cousin Lyndell made Kielle a beautiful yellow crochet blanket with white trim. Kielle also received a pink crochet blanket and matching hat from my Grandma's friend. These are going to be wonderful keepsakes. I can't wait to pass them on.  Kielle's newborn photos are with her in my keepsake teal crochet outfit that my Great Aunt Eva made for me when I was a baby.










Keith and I  thought of our own keepsakes that we can purchase for the family and collect throughout the years. Although they are store bought, they still have meaning and value to us - and hopefully the generations after us. We have 3 basic themes 1. Education  2. Holidays and  3. Marriage/Births. For education, we are buying class rings from each school we have attended from High School up to Grad School (So far we've got 3 out of 6 institutions represented...I smell a Christmas present coming). We envision this being something that each generation can keep adding to.

Our holiday heirlooms started randomly one Christmas when we came across the Swarovski annual edition Christmas ornament on sale in 2004. We decided to purchase and then got hooked. We bought some off of Ebay dating back to 1991. So far, we've got 11 in our collection. The ornaments alternate between snowflakes on even years and stars on odd years. We collect the stars. For Easter 2009, Khyri received the White House Easter Egg set from Auntie Netta. This has started a great new annual collection for us!



Now the marriage keepsake we haven't started yet - but my idea is to have an anklet that I design that all of the women in the family can wear. My thought is to have the anklet made with blue stones maybe blue topaz, tanzanite, or turquoise that each woman can wear under their wedding gowns on their big day! I plan on having my linesister Halle of HAR Jewelry www.hallerichardson.com design it for me. It will be completely original and special. I figure I have some time to pull that together so no rush :-)

For births and marriages we've been mailing an invitation/announcement to the White House. Then we receive a congratulatory letter from the Commander in Chief! (White House Greetings Office, Room 39, Washington, DC 20500) We've got a letter from George W. Bush for our wedding and a letter from Barack Obama for Khyri's birth. We're still waiting on the letter to welcome Kielle into the world. Another thing that we do to commemorate births is to buy a brick in downtown Smyrna. Buying the bricks supports the Veterans Memorial Association of Smyrna and puts a lasting mark from our family in this city that we love.

Aaaaawwwww where it all began!
Kielle and Khyri!


Of course we are also keeping the traditional keepsakes - locks of hair, first tooth, bronze shoes, etc. But we wanted to try and do something a little different. Its weird to think that one day we'll be sitting around talking to our Grandchildren and showing them our family keepsakes. Who knows I might be talking to my Granddaughter holding my Great Granddaughter on her Christening day - in my heirloom  white christening gown with a little white bow in her hair.

Thursday, May 12, 2011

FAMILY PORTRAIT ... WELL SORT OF

Everyone keeps saying "Send me a picture of Khyri and Kielle together"
Waaaaay easier said than done. Take a look.

First attempt - Simple couch photo



          

Finally!

Second attempt - Together on the bed

Khyri is hogging the spotlight
Chalk this up to a loss
   
 Third attempt - Playing on the floor

Khyri looks possessed
Kielle's not happy

Most recent attempt - Mother's Day!  
Surely they will act right on this most special occasion... We tried for a good photo before dinner and after. Keith was sooo patient hahahha


  
 
  

Before Dinner - I guess this will do


 




After Diner - I'll take this!

 We're not picture perfect but we sure have fun ;-)


Friday, May 6, 2011

YOU KNOW YOU'RE A MUNCHKIN MOMMY WHEN...

Mothers Day is this Sunday - YAY! Here is a list of random thoughts I had over a couple of days about being a mommy. I went to the store one day without the munchkins and I thought to myself "I wonder if people can tell I'm a mom?" When I got to the register to pay for my stuff - I pulled out a toy block and a random spoon while trying to find my wallet... yeah they can tell! hahahahahah

You know you're a munchkin mommy when:
  • You can't find anything to wear, but your daughter has plenty of outfits at her disposal.
  • Even though you don't have cable you somehow know the theme song to Elmo's World and Thomas the Train.
  • The first things you pack for a vacation is diapers and sippy cups.
  • You've memorized 'Brown Bear', 'The Foot Book', 'Goodnight Moon', and can easily recite them anywhere - over lunch, driving the car, changing a diaper... wherever.
  • The cashier at BRU knows your child's favorite snack (yay grapes)
  • You know what BRU stands for - Babies "R" Us
  • Everyone else's snot is disgusting except your child's - who you easily wipe their nose with the palm of your hand during cold season.
  • Cheerleader is your middle name. Everything deserves a clap from crawling to walking to talking - geesh even burping ;-)
  • You go from a loving your Sentra to feeling comfortable in your Camry to needing a Highlander.
  • At first you only use the cutesy burp cloths, then you quickly realize that anything can be used as a burp cloth - shirts, towels, socks...
  • You know the location of the restroom in every store you go in - and you know which ones have the cleanest changing stations.
  • Pacifiers and sippy cups are strategically placed around the house for easy access - but you can't find some lip gloss or chapstick to save your life.
  • You hawk the children websites waiting for the free shipping deals.
  • After having a few too many 'fall outs' in restaurants, you now put in your child's food order as soon as the waiter comes and asks "What would you like to drink?".
  • Black Friday in addition to including the standard stores now has Toys "R" Us on the list.
  • You trade in art museums for childrens museums.
  • You dread the day when your child recognizes the horrible yellow M and that happy meal.
  • Milk was never a staple in your house - now its Armageddon if you're down to half a gallon. 
  • Exercise?!!? huh?!?! Does running after/chasing/tracking down a toddler count? 
  • You start squirreling away change weekly to help pay for college - even though you know its gonna cost your house literally to pay for college when they're grown.

    Add your own "you knows" in the comments section!

    Friday, April 29, 2011

    ADVENTURES IN CLOTH DIAPERING

    As if life isn't hectic enough, I've decided to try my hand at cloth diapering. Now before I get started let me just say this: Cloth diapering (CDing) has come a LONG way... no more pins and folding (unless you want to). Today's cloth diapers are simple to use, easy to wash, and cheap on the wallet!

    I'm lucky to have a fellow clothie - my friend Latrice to experiment and learn with. Together we have researched, diapers, diaper creams, pail liners, diaper sprayers, wet bags, etc. There is definitely a lot to learn, but its all interesting and I feel like I'm doing my small part to help the environment. Plus - its cool. Cloth diapers come in so many cute colors and patterns :-)

    Most people know bumGenius cloth diapers - but there are so many others. Major retail stores are starting to carry some different diaper brands now. At Babies R Us you can find G Diapers, Target.com carries Kushies, Fuzzibuns, and their own brand Trend Lab. Even Bed Bath and Beyond is in the game selling the Bummis brand and of course Amazon.com has every single brand you can think of. My source so far for diapers has been independent stores such as Cottonbabies, Kelly's closet, Nicki's Diapers, and Diaper Junction. I have also bought a few new diapers off Ebay.

    This is my first stash shot. I started out with only 6 bumGenius diapers. I naively thought this would get me through a day.. hahahah NOT.


    These are All in Ones (AIO). They have a liner inside so there is no stuffing needed. If I want a little extra protection I can add another liner. This particular bumGenius style 3.0 came in sizes. The greens are larges for Khyri and the yellows are mediums for Kielle. *crossing fingers* hopefully Khyri will be potty training soon so I bought fewer larges for him. I still use these, but man have I come a long way....

    Here is my current stash shot:


    I now have 28 diapers of different colors, types and brands! My stash consists of bumGenius, Fuzzibuns, Kawaii, Happy Heinys, Blueberrys, EcoBritches, and BestBottoms. Most of them are pocket diapers - meaning I have to stuff the liner into the diaper shell. Trust me its not as time consuming as it sounds ahahah. I like the pockets because they take a shorter time to dry since they are separate from the shell. Except for my bumGenius 3.0s all of the other diapers are one size. They adjust using snaps in the front to fit a little one from 8lbs up to 35lbs. They are not a trim fit - especially on Kielle right now, but its more economical to buy one size. On Khyri, the one size fits really nicely. I think I need to get my stash up to about 30 to comfortably be able to CD the two munchkins full time. Of course Khyri will still use disposables at daycare - they are not having it! hahahaha, but at home I'm gonna CD as much as possible.

    Kielle goes through about 8 or 9 diapers a day and Khyri about 5, so I need to do laundry every other day. Now for some that might be a deal breaker, but for me, Kahlillah Aisha Dotson Mosley - LOVES IT! ahahhaha laundry is my absolute favorite... I know I'm a weirdo. For some reason it is very relaxing for me.


     Anywho, back to diapering... I've been psyching myself up to use cloth diapers for an outing and I finally did it Wednesday 4.27 when we went to the park. I've been nervous about carrying around dirty diapers. So to prepare, I ordered what is called a wet bag. Its a cloth bag on the outside, but the inside is lined with a plastic that locks in moisture and smell.I changed Khyri and Kielle at the park and the wet bag worked perfectly. I didn't smell anything. When I got home, I transferred the dirty dipes into the larger wet bag that I keep near the laundry.

    Speaking of laundry, I have learned a lot about what is in different laundry detergents. For CDs we have to use detergent that does not have any fragrance,  dyes, enzymes, or brighteners. We use Charlie's Soap to wash our diapers and so far its working ok. I did have some ammonia issues around week two, but I just put a 1/4 cup of distilled white vinegar in the prewash and that got rid of the stinkies. Oh yeah - prewash... so the laundering of the diapers is a little more intensive than normal clothes. after all these fabrics are going on sensitive baby parts. Here's my routine:

    Prewash with cold water
    Wash with hot water
    Cold Rinse
    Cold Rinse

    The second cold rinse is the mot important step. This ensures that all of the detergent is washed out. After washing, I toss the liners in the dryer if I need them right away, or if its a sunny day, I hang them on the drying rack and stick them outside. Here's a picture of the drying rack before I put it in the backyard.


    So far Kielle and Khyri both seem to enjoy the new diapers. Khyri hasn't noticed the difference. I can't wait to put Kielle in the patterned ones under her dresses!







    *update* I got some fluff mail!! I forgot that I had ordered some more diapers last week and they arrived finally. This batch had awesome patterns.

    more dipes and another small wet bag
    hearts and polka dots!


    So now my stash looks like this all put away - pretty much complete:



    I went to target to buy the Up&Up diapers for Khyri to use at daycare. A box of 82 size 4 diapers costs $14.99 - each diaper costs 18 cents. So I did some quick math to make the comparison:
    Khyri uses 5 diapers a day, let's say there are 30 days in the month. So Khyri would use 5 x 30 = 150 diapers a month. Multiply that by .18 and we get $27.00. If we multiply the $27 by 12 months we get $324 per year. Keep in mind that this is for a toddler who has more control of his water than an infant. With Kielle also in diapers, the $324 cost is doubled (assuming that she uses only 5 diapers a day which is SO not the case), so that's $648 per year.

    So far I've spent about $375 on cloth diapers. Most of the diapers range between $9.95 and $18.95. I only order from sites with free shipping, so that helps to keep the cost down. I also order seconds or slightly imperfect diapers. Its a high initial investment up front, but if I launder these correctly they should last until Kielle is potty trained and maybe even for baby Mosley #3! ahahhaa

    We'll see how this experiment goes.

    For more information on Cloth Diapering, take a look at this post by a fellow clothie:
    http://www.exposuresbynoel.com/ClothDiapering/