Thursday, October 16, 2014

SOOOOOO YUMMY

I cannot stop kissing Kadir's cheeks! He is just so yummy :-)
The last month we have been adjusting to having a new little person in the house. Kadir rarely cries and is a nursing champ! For his first month check up, he had already gained 2l pounds!

We welcomed Kadir home with fanfare and excitement!



He wasn't impressed :-)

But we just can't keep our eyes... and lips off him!





Sometimes the attention goes to his head!

GQ - Kadir

But he can't stop being a part of this loving family... and since he's still small, we will kiss him a much as we want!


Sunday, September 7, 2014

LABOR DAY - A DAY OF REST?

My labor day 2014 was anything but relaxing :-) I began feeling strong contractions on Sunday August 31st in the morning around 11am. I told the hubby to call his friends Erica and Marcus and put them on alert. My biggest scheduling concern with Cinco was what was going to happen with Khyri and Kielle when it was "go time" so I started lining things up - putting the extra carseats out, making snack bags, etc. just in cases we had to head out.

Things got pretty intense around 1:30pm, but then I was so exhausted I took a nap. When I woke up, all was calm. No strong contractions, no nothing. Ok! So I proceeded on with my day and hung out with the family, catching up on housework here and there. I tried to jump start labor again by deep cleaning the upstairs bathrooms and vacuuming the top level of the house to no avail.  Cinco was chilling.

Nighttime came and the hubby put the munchkins to bed. All was calm until around 11pm. I felt contractions again and decided I should watch the timing. Sure enough they were 11 minutes apart. I really felt it was "go time" now because these contractions were different; they were lower and towards my back so I put my  body on high alert. I texted Auntie around 12:45am and asked if she was awake; she lives 5 minutes away so I knew she could come hep if needed. She got all excited and I warned - well it may not be tonight. I was feeling contractions this morning and they went away so don't get too excited. I decided that if the contractions got closer I would let her know.

I called her back at 1:15am.

The contractions were consistently coming at 5 minutes away now and lasting one minute so it was time to head to the hospital. I placed my backup call and told hubby lets get going. While I'm kissing the munchkins and whispering "Tomorrow you will have a little brother or sister." in their ears, I see hubby running back and forth between rooms. Guess who didn't have nair a bag packed and ready for the hospital!?!?! Nope. not me - the hubby. When I say nothing! He's running around grabbing stuff and I'm just looking with astonishment on my face. This is our THIRD child! I've been pregnant for 10 MONTHS and you are just now remembering that we may need X,Y and Z for the hospital? My bag has been packed and in the car for 2 weeks now - you watched me pack my bag! Why didnt you get your life right then!?!? Sigh.

My attitude was changing and I was not in the mood - yup I was getting ready for labor! ahahhahah

It was taking Auntie longer than usual to get to the house. I figured she got pulled over for speeding - I was right! ahahhahaha. Apparently she ran a red light trying to get to the house. Luckily the police officer believed her when she said she was coming to assist a friend in labor :-) One time for Smyrna PD. Literally as she pulled into the driveway, I handed her the keys and me and the hubby pulled out.

The drive was fine; the roads were empty. I was feeling good because I felt we had enough time to get to the hospital safely this time *flashback to 1/13/2011* We pulled up to the Women's Center and wouldn't you know it the parking lot/ drop off area is under construction. Minor panic, but no big deal we'll just park a little farther away - we have time. So we parked and I walked ever so slowly to the building, stopping twice to ride through contractions. We go to the front desk and I answer some questions. I think because I was so calm everyone else was calm. Nobody seemed to be in any sort of STAT readiness. hahaha.

We head up to the second floor. I'm still feeling good. The contractions are harder, but nothing to cry out about. I got to the labor desk and even joke with the lady , "This is our third baby we like coming here ahahha." This is going to be a smooth delivery.

Straight into triage and I strip down and hop on the table - still smiling and  laughing. The nurse comes in and checks my cervix. 4cm and 70% effaced. Hmmmm not what I was thinking... or feeling for that matter. But ok if you say so! I go to the bathroom and weigh myself, because at this point I'm bored. 4cm could mean a long time to wait until 10cm. I was still feeling strong contractions, but she said 4cm, so apparently it was all in my head. I do design; she does babies. I'll take her word for it. I waddled my 195lb butt back to the triage room. What is taking so long!??! This is why I did not want to come to the hospital early - waiting. They asked if I wanted pain meds I said no.

Scratch that - YES! The contractions are coming strong and heavy now. Every 2 minutes apart. I feel like I can not catch my breath. I'm hitting my doggy stance rocking back and forth, hubby is rubbing my lower back, what the hell is happening?!!?! If this is 4 daggone centimeters - give me some drugs! It is way too early in the morning and I'm already exhausted. If I have to ride through contractions like this for another hour or so I am not gonna make it. This cannot be 4cm!

Newsflash - I'm going through tranistion. This is the worst part of labor. But I can't reconcile the 4cm and transition; they don't go together. Let me squat down and get into a more comfortable position. WOOSH - my water broke. Oh hell to da naw... I've been duped! 4cm?!?! You a lie! Now its time to panic because 1. Nobody is in the room and they all still think I'm damn 4cm and 2. Its GO TIME!

I'm yelling "My water broke!.. My water broke!. They're all calm ok.. "No big deal we'll get a wheelchair." There is blood and fluid all on the bed, my feet and hubby's feet. The Mosleys like to leave a mark! When that lady (she's just a regular old lady now because I don't think y'all know what you're doing... You can't be trusted. So, no nurse for you - just lady) comes into the room I look her square in the eye and say, "When I had my daughter she came 10 minutes after my water broke. We need to hurry up."

I don't know if it was the 10 minute warning or the look of death I gave that woman and everyone else that came into the room, but all of a sudden folks started snapping into action. Mind you, I'm still in the damn triage room. They hadn't even moved me to a delivery room yet. So I manage to slide into the wheelchair and this fool is asking me do I want my shoes on... what the hell!?!? shoes?? LADY - if you don't get me into a delivery room I swear I will hit you with this daggone shoe - just roll me damnit!

Down the hall we go. The cold air feels soooooooo good. I'm actually calm for a moment, which is nice. We enter the room and I say, "I need to go to the bathroom." She says, "Pee or Poop." "Pee." Fine. I go in. As soon as I hit that toilet I'm trying to poop - BIG NO NO... I start pushing. I don't know why she let me in there - rookie. I'm in an irrational state at this point all I want to do is get this baby out and you let me go to the bathroom? She comes rushing in - Hubby pulls me off the toilet. No baby in toilet today. I don't know why, but as I get off the toilet I reach back there and wouldn't you know it - a head! yup a head!

I look up still hunching over, literally trying to keep this baby in, and say, "This baby is coming now." I'm not screaming - I'm just putting y'all on notice. If you wanna roll with the Mosleys then you better come the hell on cuz this train is bound for delivery is T minus 5... 4... Everyone in the room screams NOOOO. Oh so now y'all are pressed?!? Why all the yelling you ask? Why in a room full of professional nurses can't I deliver this baby!?!? Well because THERE IS NO DOCTOR. These folks still have not called the doctor to my room yet! Well of course not - I was at 4cm. Hmph. What in the world!?!? So here I lay on the bed and they keep saying - dont' push. don't push. Has anybody got a hold of Dr. Whatsherface? Tell her mom is 100% complete. She's ready to deliver. The Doctor is not answering. WHAAAT!?!?! So I'm panicking. Somebody up in this camp is gonna put their nursing degree to use to-night!

I'm turn over on my side stare at hubby, grab onto the railing, and squeeze my legs closed. He's saying don't push. I'm saying don't push. Everybody's saying don't push!

Don't push. Don't push. Don't push. My body is telling me to push. Don't push. I'm pushing. This baby is coming. I swing my legs open and out pops a head into the nurse's hands - because the doctor still has not gotten into the room. One more push and we hear a cry :-)

It's A BOY!

On Monday, September 1, 2014 at 3:14am Kadir Lafayette Mosley arrived weighing 6lbs 15oz.

 

I worked hard on Labor Day, but Kadir came right on time - even if the doctor didn't! :-)


Saturday, August 30, 2014

WHAT'S YOUR GUESS?!?!


We are anxiously waiting for Cinco to arrive! I've been having minor contractions and everything is prepared for when we come home from the hospital.

LITERAL LIONEL

Ok so Khyri is really coming into his own. He loves asking questions and talking about the world around him. As his preschool teacher, Ms.Wakiaa, used to say "Khyri knows everything about everything!" ahhahaha

Anyway, we've had a few funny interesting encounters with Khyri because he is very literal.

While speaking with a woman in a store
Woman: How old are you?
Khyri: I'm Five.
Woman: Do you think you are having a little brother or little sister?
Khyri with the serious "Are you kidding me lady stare? : I'm not having either. My mommy is having my little sister I think.
Woman: Oh you're right! You are so smart.
Khyri: I can't have babies; I'm a boy.


Coloring in Kindergarten class:
*There is a picture that Khyri colored in class. The teacher wrote a note on it saying that "People are not purple and dogs are not green."
Me: Hey Khyri, let's work on redoing this classwork. What does this note say?
Khyri: It says "People are not purple and dogs are not green."
Me: Do you know what that means?
Khyri: *Blank Stare*
Me: If you don't I can explain it.
Khyri: I don't know what that means.
Me: Ok well, when we walk around do we see purple people?
Khyri: No.
Me: What color are dogs? Are they green?
Khyri: No, they are brown, black and white.
Me: So why did you color the person purple? Why did you color the dog green?
Khyri: Mommy, the directions said "color the picture." I used purple and green.
Me: why did you choose purple and green?
Khyri: My favorite color is green and Kielle's favorite color is purple.
Me: But you understand that the teacher wanted you to color in the picture as if it was real life?
Khyri: Now I do, but that's not what the directions said. I didn't know I had to pick certain colors.

Math in Kindergarten class
Teacher: Khyri you need to do your math practice
Khyri: I don't want to
Teacher: You have a choice; do your math or go to the office.
Khyri: I choose the office.

At doing the unfinished classwork
Me: Khyri what do the instructions say?
Khyri: It says to draw a duck (grabbing for the brown marker)
Me: I think the teacher is expecting a yellow duck
Khyri: Ducks are not yellow.
Me: Well rubber ducks are.
Khyri: In real life ducks are not yellow. When we go to the duck pond, the ducks are brown.
Me: You're right. Well let's just draw a yellow rubber ducky to satisfy your teacher.
 
At home discussing the infamous Principal's Office visit
Me: You got sent to the office?
Khyri: Yes, I was given the choice
Me: But you do not want to go to the office Khyri. That's not a good choice. Do you understand why you should have focused and done your math work?
Khyri: No, she gave me a choice; I made my choice.
Me to Daddy: I don't even know what to say.

So my Kindergarten son sat in the Vice Principal's office for 45 minutes on Friday because it was never explained to him that the office is not supposed to be a place you want to go to. Its supposed to be a place of punishment. and the thing is, now he knows that nothing really goes on in the office.  He got to sit there and talk with the Vice Principal and read some books. He is not pressed at all. To him, he simply was given the option and he chose the office, because math was too easy - might as well see what the other option holds right!??!

*sigh* this is going to be a LONG year.

Friday, August 15, 2014

TODD THE TURTLE

We have a new addition to our home! Nope its not Cinco... It's Todd, our box turtle. Last week Atlanta experienced some really bad thunderstorms. As Kielle and Daddy were coming home, they almost ran over a turtle crossing the street. Daddy stopped the car and rescued the turtle.

Now I have been wanting a turtle for at least two years now. Why?! I have no idea, but every time we go into PetSmart I tell the kiddos, "Y'all tell Daddy I want a turtle." Well on Monday I finally got my turtle! When they walked in the door Kielle said, "Mommy wants a turtle." I thought it was completely random that she would mention this now, but I jumped right in and said," I sure do." Then she said, "No, we have a turtle." huh!? I'm confused. Then Daddy moved his jacket and said,"here you go!" Whoooooo Hoooo. There he was, just as cute as can be - MY TURTLE!


Khyri wanted to name the turtle Thomas, but I quickly vetoed that. Enough with the Thomas already! So we just called him turtle for awhile. Since we didn't know what kind of turtle we had, me and the munchkins loaded into the car and headed over to the PetSmart experts.


We took rough measurements of the turtle on some paper and asked what were the essentials needed for keeping the turtle happy. The expert said that we would need to buy a tank and some food, but other than that, turtles are easy pets to have. I didn't buy the tank right away because its was $159.99. I wanted to check some thrift stores first - you never know what you can find. So, we just grabbed a can of food and headed home.

We put the turtle in a box temporarily and we tried to make it "homey" by putting in some leaves, rocks, and branches. It wasn't fancy, but it would have to do until we figured out what type of habitat we wanted permanently.


We didn't keep the turtle locked up the first day, we let him outside and the munchkins had a lot fun trying to find him in the brush.


The munchkins loved picking him up and carrying him to different parts of the yard. I'm sure the turtle was annoyed, but you don't really ease into the Mosley family, we just kinda swarm you and envelope you :-) ahhahaha. Khyri tried to make the turtle literally "come out of his shell" and Kielle practiced moving like a turtle. You'd be surprised at how fast turtles move when they want to escape children! hahaha


After seeing the turtle outside in his element having a good time, I decided that I didn't want him to live in a cage in the house. Instead, I wanted to build him an outdoor habitat. Open laptop; head to google. I typed in Box turtle outdoor habitats and I was inspired by the photos I saw...

Awww shoogey doogey its project time! That night I kept researching what the key elements of an outdoor habitat was while the turtle slept in his box. During the night I decided to ask the turtle what his thoughts were on living outside and I just kept calling him Todd... and so it stuck. Todd the Turtle. He had a name... now all he needed was a home.

There are four main elements that are needed for a box turtle habitat:
shade
places to hide
water dishes
rocks to lay in the sun or eat on

I realized that all of this can be scavenged from the backyard. We didn't really need to purchase anything except a few plants for shade. My first step was to first a suitable location. I settled on an area on the South side of the house that gets a fair amount of shade and sun throughout the day. The area is right up against the fence so I only needed to close in one side. Khyri and I headed to The Home Depot Tuesday after school and picked up two hosta, which do really well in shade and are low enough for Todd to get some coverage, and one azalea plant, which by next spring should provide a little color to the area.


I started mapping out where I wanted each element to go. I figured I wanted to divide the area into zones that had a different textures. I had the pine straw zone, the covered zone, the water zone, and the rock zone.Now me being the crazy mommy that I am, I didn't' want these children helping me at all! I know I said Todd was our pet, but nuh uh.,.. not really - he's mine! alllll mine! While I was outside, the kiddos were inside drawing pictures of Todd.


The previous owners of the house left a ton of brick edgers on the sides of the house, so I used those to create a wall that Todd could not climb. He's already tried to escape twice into the forest behind our house, so I knew that the wall had to be formidable. I staggered the pattern and created an overhang so that, hopefully, he couldn't get a good grip on the backside and climb over to freedom. Now I know I'm pregnant.. I mean seriously how can I forget!... so you'll be happy to know that I devised a safe - well safer - way to transport the edgers from the side of the house to the habitat - I used the umbrella stroller!


Talk about ingenuity! I moved about 20 pavers around the house and up went the wall. Next I planted the foliage and added in some pine straw. The habitat was coming together slowly. I kept looking at it throughout the day and realized that I wanted more wood and more shade. So I looked to my inspiration photos for some ideas and decided to cut two extra flower pots that we had and create shaded nooks.
For his water area, I found a porcelain plate at Goodwill for $.99 and used that in the middle of the habitat for decoration. Its nice and shallow so he can drink of take a splash if he likes. I even took on of the curved pieces of edging and created a bridge by the "pool". After adding the plate, I moved onto gathering rocks. There are plenty of rocks in our backyard and on the side of the house so these were easy to find and add. I was still lacking something, though, and I couldn't put my finger on it.

Tuesday night I put Todd into his new habitat. Sweet Dreams Todd!

While driving Khyri to school on Wednesday, I saw a lot of downed trees from the storm. I needed a really large branch for the habitat - that's what was missing! So after I dropped Khyri off, I circled back and picked up a few large pieces of wood for the habitat that people had pulled from their yards.

Do you know when I got back home that doggone Todd had dug a hole under the darn fence and escaped! I couldn't' believe it. I was in the midst of making him his own oasis and yet he's steady trying to vacate the premises! arrrggghhh. Alas... he's a turtle, so he didn't get too far. I found him buried under some pinestraw right by the air conditioning units. Gotcha homie! hmph.

So now I was determined to really make his area nice. I added in the wood and put up my branches to serve as trees. then I shored up the fence area with pine cones and small rocks on the habitat side to keep him from digging. On the outside of the fence, I put some additional edgers down as more deterrent.



Todd's Personal Oasis
 The pictures really don't do it justice! This is a NIIIIIICE spot. I don't know why he would want to leave (Besides the fact that he could have been walking home on Monday to his family and we snatched him up and confined him... besides all that...). I still have that back right flower pot to fill (maybe a nice red rose bush?) and I am contemplating putting a small tomato plant in there somewhere so Todd can scavenge for his own food. I also need to add some wood chips or rocks to the ground. Apparently box turtles aren't too fond of grass. In preparation for when winter comes I need to build a box shelter in one of the corners to keep him warm. So there may be some future renovations in store :-)

He's no baby Mosley, but Todd sure does make this family feel complete :-)



Welcome to the Mosleys Todd!

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

KINDERGARTEN...MEET KHYRI!

August 4, 2014 at 7:50am Khyri begins his first day of Kindergarten.

Let's look at that again... 7:50am... ummm the Mosleys struggled with getting Khyri to Pre-Kindergarten on time at 8:30am... this "real school" thing is a bit much! ahahhahaha but we can do it :-)

The whole night before I was up crying and pacing because I was very anxious about Khyri starting school. Luckily my homie #1 Ukindra talked me back from the ledge. I called her at 11:30pm and was like, "are you up!?!" ahahhaha After 5 minutes of trying to figure out why on earth I was calling her - again today, she heard me blowing my nose. She said, "Are you crying?" uhhhhh. "Yes I've been crying for the last 2 hours" bwuwaahahhaha. A little back history - I. don't. cry. I don't even like listening or seeing other people cry. So if I'm crying it means everything has come to head and I am completely overwhelmed. ahahahahhaha. She asked me what was wrong and I spiraled into a long rant about Khyri going to the bathroom alone and being "pants" at the urinal or him walking into the cafeteria and nervously looking around to find a seat by a friendly face. Ukindra brought me back to reality.... she was like this is kindergarten - not prison! hahahahah. We chatted for about an hour and then I calmed down enough to fall asleep - well rest my eyes. ahhhhh the comfort of good friends!

I swear I woke up every hour on the hour. I don't' even know why I was in pajamas; it was a waste of a clothing change. The hubby and I officially rose at 6:15am because we did not want to be late on day one. Day two maybe... but not day one :-) So After the alarm went off, hubby and I split up duties - he focused on Kielle and I focused on Khyri. The kiddos were dressed in 20 minutes flat.While they were brushing their teeth, I went downstairs and put together Khyri's lunch. This is my first time packing an actual lunchbox, so I was kind of nervous. I mean, really, I didn't want to set Khyri up as "the kid that has the nasty lunch all the time" ahahhaha. Cafeteria talk is real! My friend Danielle, who is a packed lunch professional, suggested that I aim to include four things daily - sandwich, drink, starch (chips/crackers), and a fruit or vegetable. For day one I put together a turkey and cheese sandwich, grapes and blueberries, a juicebox, and cheezit crackers. Not bad. Every container in the lunch box is labeled so hopefully this will last us the whole year and come back home each night.

For breakfast, I cooked some turkey bacon and gave the kids their choice of cereal. Kielle chose Cinnamon Toast Crunch and Khyri chose Kix.They topped off their breakfast with a tall glass of orange juice. While at the table, both of them could not believe that they were "up before the sun". Kielle said, "Mommy the sun isn't up, so we should be sleeping." Khyri said, "You're right Kielle. Mommy made a mistake." I swear he talks like I am just dumb as rocks sometimes! a mess. After chuckling a bit, and slyly rolling my eyes at Khyri, I said, "The sun will be up before we get to school." They both gave me the side eye.


After breakfast, the munchkins put on their shoes and grabbed their book bags. The sun still hadn't come up and I truly believe they thought I was lying. ahahahhahah. It was a battle, but I was able to snap a picture of the two of them with their book bags on, ready for school.
 

They still don't believe me!
We all piled into the car and headed over to the elementary school. One of the main reasons we moved to this new house was so that the children could go to this particular school. It has everything we want - a diverse student body, good test scores, excellent teachers, tons of extracurricular enrichment activities for the students, and great parent involvement. It's also only 7 minutes away! woot woot! So we loaded into the car and headed out.


As always, Khyri rolled into his new school reading a book! His new obsession is dinosaurs.

The school parking lot was jam packed at 7:30am. There were cars everywhere. We had to park illegally on somebody's front lawn and walk about a block and a half to the school. We has met Khyri's teach Mrs. Denney the week before at Sneak-A-Peek. This mini open house allows the students to meet their teachers and see where their classrooms are. As well, parents hand in the school supplies and purchase school spirit wear at Sneak-A Peek.


For the first week, each kindergartener, and maybe 1st graders, got a sticker name tag that identified them and noted which teacher was theirs. This was in case some little person got side tracked and ended up in the cafeteria instead of their homeroom :-)



Kielle was excited to walk Khyri to his new classroom. I think she thought she was starting Kindergarten too! Khyri paused a little in front of his new classroom, but since we had seen it on Thursday, he knew exactly where his seat was. This is where I started to get misty eyed; he's a big boy now its official! He had actually crossed the threshold into adult world... ok ok.. kindergarten world... but in my mind... Khyri was heading off to college next week.

I watched him from outside the classroom put away his book bag and then the three of us backed away slowly. I felt the tears come down, but there were so many kids in the hall I didn't want them to start asking their parents, "What's wrong with that grown lady!?!?" ahahahaha so I did quick wipes and moved towards the car. I wasn't the only one sad though; Kielle took it rough also...


After I dropped off Kielle in her new preschool class, I went home and fell out. It was just too much emotion for me in one day; I was exhausted. I slept for awhile and then went to my scheduled doctors appointment. Everything is looking good for Cinco, but I gotta admit I was a little worried that all the stress would maybe spur me into labor; I was ok though.

School lets out at 2:20pm and I was in the carpool lane at 2:10pm :-) Let me tell you carpool is serious. I've never had experience with carpool - I mean in NYC I was on the train everyday, no school bus, no carpool. This is a photo I snapped while I was waiting.

The school is located on a small residential street. There is one lane of traffic each way. The carpool takes up the whole street. I feel bad for anyone living on that street during the school year. Its crazy!
When I finally got my boy he was super excited about his first day :-) To celebrate, we went to Barnes and Nobles. We stayed there for about an hour perusing the bookshelves and picking some good reads for the next couple of weeks.

Then we came back to the house and looked in his book bag. Somehow I ended up having more "homework" than Khyri!

After I filled out all the necessary forms, read all the info guides, posted the school calendar on the refrigerator and reviewed the classroom handbook, Khyri and I set about making his lunch for the next day. This time, Khyri opted for peanut butter and jelly :-)

As usual, I let my mind get the best of me and I was petrified of Khyri's first day.... and then, as usual, Khyri proved that he is more than capable of growing up and moving onto the next "phase" of his life. *le sigh* Why do I have a feeling these milestones are not gonna get any easier for me!?!?!?

As sure as the sun comes up each and every day, my children are growing... and I'm LOVING it!